Hello All!
As you can tell I’m still getting use to the whole blogging craft, but I ensure you it will get better! With that I have deciplined myself to leaving a post at least once a month, life is so hectic, but awesome!
So please cut me some slack, and Thanks for even reading the caos that comes outta my head.
Peace and Love
Enjoy!
Cheers to the Holidays!
Lets give thanks to unpredictable life, comedy worthy family and never ending laughter with great friends, I pray God continues to throw us all in so many different whirlpools of learning and emotions, in which we will all become better movers in lifes obstacles and belivers in blessings. As I watch the world around me move, I notice how far gone so many of us are. Holding no morsels of hope and being so unaware of realites of whats around us, they continue to just move about as if nothing matters but, thyself. Selfishness has become one of the biggest epidemics next to the common flu, and I myself find times when I am guilty of it. With the world being so cold all on its own, the need for human kindness should be no surprise, it brings a warmth during the holidays that gives the whole “Winter Wonderland" a pinch of life. Instead of looking down upon or judging others, including giving the most hideous, cold faces of “love" to each other and yes I am talking to you my brothers and sisters especially, young and old casue lets be honest we dont now how to give warm welcoming glaces to each other here in NYC and so many other places, Its kind of disgusting to say the least, but I cannot change eveyone just myself. It’s a huge self esteem and confidence issue within yourself when this happens, people dont realize this. So, join me lets try and give warming glances, appreciating thy neighbor for who they are and if you have words spoken how about starting or ending with a Good Morning, afternoon, evening and the very best for this time of year, Happy Holidays! Its called common courtesy, if common sense is possible (in some cases I will strongly say it’s not ), (lol) then common courtesy should be easy. Even though living in NYC, aka the “Big Apple” can be very frustrating at times with so many walks of life within this city, making you want to take that, “Big Apple” and pelt it at the heads of some people! (I dont condone or promote violence) But, we must remember this time of year is for kindness and giving to one another, which most times costs nothing.
There is so much history in the holidays, The Christmas Tree and lights represents God and forever Eternal life.
Remember we are reflections of the futures after us. Just as things in life change, we must change how we reflect.
Weather it be good or bad, how you handle every situation determines what happens next. What happens next could be good or bad, but that all depends on how you handled the situation!
I Wish You all Happy Holidays and Blessings into the New Year!!!
Jules :)
Friday, November 30, 2012
Wednesday, October 31, 2012
Mis-Education of Our Children... WTF??
Well, Lets not forget the fact that we are ranking 14th in reading alone and we speak english, I’m too ashamed to even say the what we rank in “Math”!! God Bless the asian community, and were a “Capitalist” country, I seriously beg to differ in so many ways. If you know anything about your history, my mind bending question from my last post you will realize how far back Mis-education really goes in this “land of the free," I mean facts are we are a country built by European theives and criminals. So, what could we expect? We can barely find the right man to run the country so we give each man who comes just a tad close to perfect by a longshot, 8 years each, if there lucky! I call that the best poker game ever... I CALL YOUR BLUFF AMERICA!! You are creating the dumbest children in the world, why??? I have no idea, and frankly neither does this country. I have veered from wanting to educate the youth in this world, to wanting to counsel them and their families instead. Why? You ask, well simply put, were not really teaching them anything, except how to get jobs. Lets not forget half the teachers, usually hold FINANCE or ORAGAMI degrees and have not a clue about child development. All because they pay teachers crap and expect them to educate a mis-educated country, O..K.!
By all means I cannot soley blame America for our Mis-educated children, because America is not the parents of these amazing kids. I won’t go too hard on parents, not now... but soon. I’m not a parent myself but was raised by a No Bullshit you’r not gonna be sitting here stupid with me... Mom. And of-course FAMILY, We called it “School of the Hardknocks” you either Get it together or Get it together with harsh realities of life, your choice!
Gone are the days of Current Events classes, teachers staying late if students need help and student and teacher respectable relationships. But, where do we begin, the cycle continues and its only getting worse. I asked one of my students what he wants to be when he grows up? And his honest answer was... Rich!... My second question to him was.. In what???
Jules
By all means I cannot soley blame America for our Mis-educated children, because America is not the parents of these amazing kids. I won’t go too hard on parents, not now... but soon. I’m not a parent myself but was raised by a No Bullshit you’r not gonna be sitting here stupid with me... Mom. And of-course FAMILY, We called it “School of the Hardknocks” you either Get it together or Get it together with harsh realities of life, your choice!
Gone are the days of Current Events classes, teachers staying late if students need help and student and teacher respectable relationships. But, where do we begin, the cycle continues and its only getting worse. I asked one of my students what he wants to be when he grows up? And his honest answer was... Rich!... My second question to him was.. In what???
Jules
Sunday, September 2, 2012
Do You Know Your History?
Hello World!
I’m a proud black woman with a passion for the betterment of my fellow black people, especially children. I love all people, the world is full of beautiful people, but I hear a cry for help within our communities and in black youth and I’m destined to answer that call or at least reach a few crys before they become silent. I hope you enjoy the topics and please comment as your comments are what keep me aware and connected.
Sincerely,
An 80’s baby doing her part to help.... :)
So... I have come to realize so many black people, no matter what background have no idea about thier history and how great it is. And as some of you may not understand how this comes to bother me so much, I say in my defense that it sets a person back when they have no knowledge of where they come from. The struggles of our people were the highlights of our education, while the unbelievable accomplishments and contributions we have made in history were seldom or irrelevant. I come to understand this from working with black children of all ages, now I single out black children only because I relate to them personally. Our futures are merely a reflection of our pasts and so many young children have a dreadful reflection to look at, but that does not determine who they will be if surrounded by the right influences. “It takes a village to raise a child” parents can do what they can, but sometimes it takes someone else to see the value in that child and encourage achievement.
Community is almost lost, hard times are getting harder and uniting seems out of the question!
Get your hands dirty, learn about yourself , your history and what qualities you bring to the table. Improvise on them! I was once told if you can do something good then perfect it! Your twenties allow you to get to know yourself and the world around you, as young children our parents guide us the best way they know how, in adulthood is where you truly find your own balance and knowledge for your life ahead.
Be proud of who you are and especially of where you come from, if you have children teach them this, dont leave it to the television or other young children to knowledge your child. Get involved! I know that it can be challenging to be a parent but with all brutal honesty, you made the choice or was given the blessing to have a child... Now lets get to work!
We must encourage our youth to love themselves, educate themselves and represent themselves!
I’m a proud black woman with a passion for the betterment of my fellow black people, especially children. I love all people, the world is full of beautiful people, but I hear a cry for help within our communities and in black youth and I’m destined to answer that call or at least reach a few crys before they become silent. I hope you enjoy the topics and please comment as your comments are what keep me aware and connected.
Sincerely,
An 80’s baby doing her part to help.... :)
So... I have come to realize so many black people, no matter what background have no idea about thier history and how great it is. And as some of you may not understand how this comes to bother me so much, I say in my defense that it sets a person back when they have no knowledge of where they come from. The struggles of our people were the highlights of our education, while the unbelievable accomplishments and contributions we have made in history were seldom or irrelevant. I come to understand this from working with black children of all ages, now I single out black children only because I relate to them personally. Our futures are merely a reflection of our pasts and so many young children have a dreadful reflection to look at, but that does not determine who they will be if surrounded by the right influences. “It takes a village to raise a child” parents can do what they can, but sometimes it takes someone else to see the value in that child and encourage achievement.
Community is almost lost, hard times are getting harder and uniting seems out of the question!
Get your hands dirty, learn about yourself , your history and what qualities you bring to the table. Improvise on them! I was once told if you can do something good then perfect it! Your twenties allow you to get to know yourself and the world around you, as young children our parents guide us the best way they know how, in adulthood is where you truly find your own balance and knowledge for your life ahead.
Be proud of who you are and especially of where you come from, if you have children teach them this, dont leave it to the television or other young children to knowledge your child. Get involved! I know that it can be challenging to be a parent but with all brutal honesty, you made the choice or was given the blessing to have a child... Now lets get to work!
We must encourage our youth to love themselves, educate themselves and represent themselves!
Peace and love
Jules
Jules
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