Single, Successful & Country Bound!!

Howdy,

So over the past three months I have been doing major research of small country towns commutable to NYC, because there comes a time in a persons life (Not every person) where they ask themselves, Where will I make my Home?... Is this my home anymore? I realized though NYC has been my home for 22 years its time to walk away, the city streets I’ve come to know as paths I take in life, have become worn out roads I no longer wish to follow (Did I just make some poetry?) Anyhow this huge city of dreams and lights, has become a small town to me. The only thing that holds dear to me here are my family who has lived here since the 50’s, my friendships and ofcourse my upbringing, I am the definition of a New Yorker and I’m so proud! Throughout my life NYC (aka; Concrete Jungle) has given me amazing experiences that have contributed to the personality of me. With that this will be my last year living in this great city, as I will attempt to indulge in country living, while pursuing my new found career “writing". MMM.. I can just smell the apple crisp! 

You may be asking, why would a single, successful woman choose the country?

Well, to put it simply, I am writing a book (because as we know I want to become a writer) and I’m finding it hard to write in the city (crazy, I know). I cannot find enough peace and quiet, which has lead to serious writers block, theres just too much going on around me (Hence the name “City that never sleeps”). There seems to be no longer a balance, and so instead of becoming the "angry New Yorker" I’m going to just take myself out of this noisy/busy equation and escape. With this choice, I find moments of fear, which lead me to do deep research seeking information such as amount of crime, best schools and single life. Yes, single life because I am single and seeking a devoted spouse (well I wouldnt say seeking, haven’t been on a date in months, whole other story) Anyway, I'm seeking a better way of life, fresher air, nature, better schools and the reason I’m totally sold on moving WAL-MART SUPER STORE!! Need I really say more lets not leave out dozens of outlets at my fingertips (Including the Fabulous Coco Chanel which does not give you pricing over the phone even though it’s an outlet). 

Get my point? Hopefully, you do. They say the grass isn’t always greener on the other side, well the grass is greener on the other side of highway I-95 and i’m packing my bags cause i’m ready to mow the lawn and sip on some Lemonade!

Wish me luck! Any advice is welcome as we continue..."Journey’s of a Struggling Writer”.

Xoxo
Jules
Peace, Love and Square Dancing!

Be MindFul When Traveling Abroad....Really?

Click Link To Read Article By Belle
http://www.abelleinbrooklyn.com/blog/2013/1/7/essence-traveling-while-black.html


Hello All,

Thanks for patiently awaiting my late posts, its well into the first month of the year and I have been planning and plotting on an adventurous and productive year. I have finally committed myself to writing and giving you guys a gigantic window into my life and journey to become a published author, wow that was so easy to write and while writing it my heart skipped two beats and I broke a mini sweat, because I know this journey will be exhilirating and challenging at the same damn time! But with all of you guys support and encouragement I see a great end to this journey. 


What Have I been Doing All This Time???

Over the pasts few months I have been networking and joining so many groups to get myself out there, it has been alot of researching and emailing in my attempts at being pointed in the right direction, so I have started following an awesome author/blogger named “Belle”, if you havent heard of her then you need to check her out immediately. She is a relationship advice writer with contributing colums and articles to such elite resources as Essence magazine and Black Enterprise, I love/respect her work and have come to use her as my imaginary mentor on how to represent yourself as a successful writer. I have also realized that with my new found career choice I must upgrade myself education wise (totally by choice). While I am a firey English language guru I must gain a better understanding and dicipline of great writing (Stephen King Say’s “Just write”) ummmm, your Stephen freaking King give me something better to work with, lol! My College professor (English Literature) handed me my 8 page paper on short stories we read throughout the semester and with great intensity went on to tell me “You Should Really Consider Writing as a Career”, of-course I looked around to see who he was talking to (Duh), but totally understood his opinion after going over my grades with an advisor who as politely as possible tried to tell me I suck at every other subject. But, strongly saying, I have a choice become a counselor or writer “choose wisely" she says. So, here I am making my mark in the blogging world.... God Be with me!


What Have I Been Reading..hmmmm???

I have pasted a link above about an article in which Belle talks traveling abroad, I myself have made future plans to venture out into the world of foreign cultures, languages and road maps. And, to my surprise I didnt expect to read about outlandish acts of steroetyping done in other countries to black American tourists, in all honesty I had the calming perception that it would be less pressure to represent myself (Damn you Spice Girls). I had a kind of "they will take me as I am" attitude towards my planning, hoping to be freely open eyed and adventurous as any other tourist. BIG GIGANTIC RED X!!! Apparently traveling abroad is were you really get an idea of how far steroetypes and being portrayed in the media as something you’r not can go, that without even realizing were stuck in this twilight zone of judgement and its WORLD WIDE. But, I don’t have time to let these portrayls of what people see me as, stop me from exploring my planet that God made for us ALL. It actually makes me want to venture out more, and without regard or apology represent the beauty and essence of being Black and Proud. 


XoXo 
Jules
Peace & Love

Opinions and Comments Greatly Urged!!!





  

HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL!!!!!

STAY TUNED WORKING ON READER WORTHY NEW POST FOR 2013 COMING SOON!!!

HOPE YOU ALL HAD AN AMAZING NEW YEARS, MINE WAS SPENT ON THE COUCH BUT TO MY CONTENTMENT IT WAS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED. 

LOOKING FORWARD TO NEW BEGINNINGS, ENDINGS AND LOTS OF LOVE!!! 

XOXOXO CHEERS!
JULES